i can’t wait to have a boyfriend so i can have you advise me on things to buy him. Women dress in “male” clothes all the time and it is perfectly acceptable. But, please, let me put you right on a few things. I discovered by accident that he likes to wear women’s lingerie,” a woman shared in the UK’s Independent. She went off again to get some knickers. So, not totally related, but I thought underwear would never make a difference in this regard, and I am not a fan of the frilly, slinky underwear stuff. GAY!! Communication. As a woman married to a man, if I found out he was cheating it would be horrible but possibly something we could work through. I’d be annoyed he was stretching my sh*t out. I was embarrassed. Worst of all, it turned out that he had on my bra! If you lean towards ending the marriage anyway, then I wouldn’t make this about the crossdressing. Help! Approach him with openness and warmth and ask him to explain this to you and let him know it is okay with you and he doesn’t have to hide it anymore. June 19, 2014, 9:21 am. I understand feeling incredibly hurt that he has kept this from you for so long, but you have the chance to rectify that, and learn about this side of your husband. Experts say that quite a few men who are cross-dressers do somehow manage to keep their marriages going - provided their wives are tolerant. A. I am very sorry to hear that you have had such an awful shock. My husband – the man I love – was standing in front of the mirror in our bedroom wearing my slinky black dress and fishnet stockings and dancing to Wham! Me being me, I felt sorry for him. Please answer seriously, because I’m curious. And if you can’t trust him to be honest, there you go. I asked him if he would wear dresses and skirts on the weekend. If it was a serious long-term boyfriend, fiance, husband that I was deeply committed to, I would work with it and accept it for sure, it would probably just take a bit. Laura Hope If I were confronted with this, I wouldn’t be thrilled (men wearing women’s lingerie do not look sexy to me), but I’d probably try and see if I could adjust to the idea of my guy doing this. June 19, 2014, 10:41 am. June 19, 2014, 10:25 am. Michael Warnock If so, this shouldn’t be the end of the world. mrmidtwenties Fiance started off all boxers, now does all boxer briefs cause he says they are more comfortable. — He Wears My Lingerie. How much ball room is there, mrmid? Personally I like him to wear dresses and skirts. If he told me wants to wear prom dresses I will take him to get fitted for some. So did Brian. Not as widespread as the purchasing options and lack of popular judgement for women’s lingerie?) He just likes the way it feels on his skin, and I can understand that.”. ), Addie Pray My feminized boyfriend wears one of my dresses for today I think this dress suits him quite excellent, so I gave it to him. He told me that all his life, he had wanted to 'dress up' in women's clothing. You should get yourself checked out by the doctor, just in case you have an infection. Discuss what your thoughts are and his thoughts. Like, good for you that you want to wear women’s underwear/lingerie. June 19, 2014, 5:31 pm, @ap, well if you need a guy to buy things for, I’m right here , fast eddie On my wedding night I discovered that my husband's penis is very small. June 19, 2014, 10:47 am. Also, he takes pics of himself…it’s like a sexy selfie? How I broke my husband with one simple dress. She’d have said that in the LW. I get that phones are most people’s regular cameras these days but I can’t help but wonder if the fact that he used his phone means he sent or plans to send the pictures to someone else. Wow. Thanks for visiting! I used to think people who wore jeggings were weird. Not to mention the amount of self doubt I would experience in wondering how I could have not realised something so fundamental about him. It’s a pretty harmless kink and not even one that I’d have to actively participate in — I’d probably encourage him to get his own garments rather than borrow mine. hm good question. So my boyfriend came up to me once when I came home looking all shamefaced and goes “There’s a run in one of your black stockings.” I just figured he’d been doing laundry, until he followed up with “I may have been trying them on. This is where I am with it I think. After 20 years, he has nothing to hide anymore, and, thanks to you, I’m fine with it now. June 19, 2014, 10:18 am. 7? I could see that he had even tried to put on a pair of my shoes. NEWSFLASH: Your husband enjoys a common HETEROSEXUAL kink and or fetish. This was about a week ago. What the two of you should do now is to start talking about what has been going on. In fact, many male cross-dressers can have perfectly happy and healthy heterosexual relationships with women they love and are attracted to. At first, he tried to pretend that it was all just a joke to make me laugh. Is that true, Doc? I don't think so. sounds like you need to do a Reader’s Rec! Ha, well it is probably partially because those are the kind of underwear that his mom buys for him for Christmas and birthdays, along with socks. Q. So I have to say I haven’t picked up my ‘real’ camera in over a year. The wording reveals the snoop. He always thanked me for being so open, he wasn’t out about it so I would watch for other customers while he tried them on behind the accessory racks- he didn’t want the reaction from other people. “I don’t think you will need boxers anymore, why don’t we get rid of them? June 19, 2014, 9:40 am. But my guess is that your wife is just suffering from a little vaginal dryness. My husband, the woman: The private anguish of having a spouse. That’s not snooping. Sure, it could mean more (I certainly don’t know), but I can see getting a general “he’s keeping something from me” feeling to fuel snooping. She slipped on and fastened my high heeled pumps and told me to walk to the vanity. I had the same thought as you Addie Pray. We have three children, and until recently, I thought we had a happy life. June 19, 2014, 11:06 am, Addie Pray Should a house husband wear a dress while doing house work? If he wants to wear panties I will take him to Victoria’s Secret. Should I have been? They are called Go Go Boys. I am limping badly. It is important not to confuse it with the activities of the dressed-up male prostitutes who frequent certain parts of the Corporate Area, and who genuinely are homosexuals. If it turns you on, that’s cool…. That is one of the fairly rare side effects of the Pill, and it is very serious! June 19, 2014, 10:10 am. It’s so important for both of you to work out what you can and can’t live with. June 19, 2014, 9:27 am. Fairly common. What can I say? I Caught My Husband Wearing Lingerie. Question to the gay men out there: is it common for gay clubs to have random hot men walking around in boxer briefs? Banana, I think lingerie for men should definitely be more common and I think guys would be all over it once they realized how comfortable lingerie can be. Tell him you love him and want to understand this behavior. The thrill faded slowly but a couple of GFs at the time enjoyed my enthusiasm and encouraged me put on something lacy before going out for the evening. Well, it is unlikely that a 27-year-old man would have a testosterone (male hormone) deficiency. My entire life, our kids’ lives, almost everything would change. What about you? Like if I had a fantasy I was living out and didn’t share with m, I would feel weird. Definitely ask your husband if he’s been faithful if you’re worried about that, but don’t just assume that a) he must be interested in men or b) that he’s being unfaithful. June 19, 2014, 1:44 pm. I don’t know about most men, but the ones I’ve dated were all in the boxer category, unfortunately. Surprisingly, most of these men are not homosexuals. But at first I did have to say, you can't wear a dress every night. If you can reserve judgment and just listen to his explanation with an open heart, hopefully your husband will trust you enough to share his feelings and you will find that this is really nothing more than a kink — and a pretty harmless one at that — and doesn’t have to have a negative effect on your marriage. Q. Husband’s Family: I have been with my husband for 10 years and we have a 3-year-old daughter together. Doctor, what am I to do? New readers, welcome to Dear Wendy, a relationship advice blog. Yes. Sex has been very good for me since I had a coil put in six months ago. And the best way to approach him would be to not jump to conclusions … but if there’s more going on here (and there must have been something to prompt you to go through his phone), that may be hard to do. He likes to wear womens underwear and I want him to be happy and free. I used to think my dad eating octopus was weird. Man my in-laws are the best , Oops, meant this as a reply to honeybeenicki above! mrmidtwenties But I’m certainly not aroused and didn’t plan on sending them to anyone. June 19, 2014, 10:20 am. Everyone has weird fantasies and it is just thinking about how you can incorporate these things in your life that make you feel comfortable. June 19, 2014, 9:04 am. I think it would turn me off from sex with him. I briefly dated a crossdresser who was very open about it and I had no issues with it and I actually enjoyed helping him shop for clothes and makeup. bittergaymark I’m not looking for anything sinister, I trust him. But then I have a vivid imagination. Good day, Doc. He also needs to respectfully launder anything he has been using. “Clothes don’t make the man” has a new meaning. They are so un-sexy” She was playing the unattractive card again. It’s really difficult for me to separate the “my SO wears women’s clothing” situation from the “I don’t fully know my SO, and he doesn’t feel he can share this part of himself with me” situation. honeybeenicki What must I do? Add Opinion. I recently switched from briefs for the support to boxers seeking comfort. I Tricked My Husband Into Wearing a Dress - Free download as Word Doc (.doc), PDF File (.pdf), Text File (.txt) or read online for free. He said I was one of the only salespeople that he tried them on in front of because of people’s reactions. I wear my husband's underwear all the time. Three years ago, I realised that my organ gets very sore after sex with my wife. However, you should now go and see the doctor who put the device in, who will look for the threads with a special instrument and she can gently pull them down a little, into the vagina. Something like “since I’ve basically already told my mother that I like sucking dick, telling someone I’m seeing that I want to be pissed on isn’t as scary.” And I imagine it goes the other way too. I get a pretty good gut feeling when my guy is keeping something from me. Cross-dressing and homosexuality — and transgender identity, for that matter — are NOT the same thing, and a man can be into wearing women’s clothes without being sexually attracted to men and without feeling like he’s a woman in a man’s body. Because i need these for my daughters wedding it was a rushed thing so hopefully the other dresses will be ok and nothing wrong with the stitching like the maid of honour dress. But if it doesn't, your wife should ask her doctor whether she is getting to the age where she needs a little female hormone cream to help her produce sufficient lubrication for love-making. Would it help me to take testosterone, Doc? muchachaenlaventana Then I went to a gay club and they had men walking around in boxer briefs – holy shit, that is hot! I’m getting this from the fact that your main reason against separation is your daughter and that you mention “other problems”. November 16, 2017, 1:49 pm. Addie Pray A few months after we met, he told … September 16, 2012 — 3.00am. June 19, 2014, 5:09 pm. Dear Wendy June 19, 2014, 10:32 am, I think it would be hot!
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